The recent traumatic and devastating case of Ellie Butler, a six year
old girl who was murdered by her father is something I find very disturbing;
particularly as the trial judge exonerated him from a previous offence of
shaking and injuring her as a small baby, and then after spending most of her
life in the tender care of her grandparents she was handed over to a man and
woman she barely knew. I work as a carer
in children’s homes with kids some who have been
physically and sexually abused, and at the moment I am working with a very
challenging ten year old girl whose parents were nothing short of monsters; the
abuse she and her nine siblings suffered at the hands of their parents is
something that will probably scar them emotionally for the rest of their lives,
and the thought of this poor girl being sent back to the very people who did
such terrible things to her fills me with horror. Yet this is exactly what happened to
Ellie. Her grandfather has been speaking
in the media about it recently, of how he and his late wife fought tooth and
nail to keep her with them, but were basically told they were interfering with
judicial procedures and warned to back off.
At the end of her life when her grandfather last saw her, Ellie was
covered in bruises and was withdrawn and quiet... a few days later she was
dead, and Ellie’s own mother
colluded to cover up the murder. We are
only carers, but the work we do is the stuff no one really hears about, and
believe me life in a children’s
home is nothing like Tracy Beaker. We
work for minimum wage with complex kids who for various reasons cannot be
fostered or adopted, and sometimes I do feel their needs are not properly
supported by the agencies and social workers who should have their best
interests at heart... a point sadly proved by Ellie Butler’s tragic story.
Thursday, 23 June 2016
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